5 Habits of a Happy & Successful Relationship
5 Habits of a Happy & Successful Relationship
What is Habit? Simply, habit is the regular pattern of act or Behavior. it’s positive or negative but both are affected on our lives. A positive habit always gives good results than a negative habit. many habits can powerfully impact your relationship but you can practice these habits everyday basis.
The result of one study, the habit can take 21 days to establish no matter it’s positive or negative. but especially in a relationship work on your habits for a lifetime not only 21 days or month or year, because the relationship is lifelong. it is very difficult to do every day but it’s not impossible. think it’s for me, not my partner because one study (its long study of about 50 to 60 years) has found that healthy relationships can reduce stress, Improve –
Physical health, mental peace, and give you a stronger sense of purpose. In other words, relationships play a leading role in your health, mine peace, and well-being. In this article, I will share some powerful habits for happy and successful relationship habits based on my experience and my study. I wish this habit can help you to improve your marriage life and love life. implement this in your routine life and start new relationships with your partner.
Here are 5 habits of happy, successful, and healthy couples do, and some more ideas for couples to integrate them too.
1. Love Your Self
Very important in a successful relationship is self-love or self intimacy. ” it’s all about finding out who you are? what are you doing? where are you going? where have you been? ” find out your inner passion and hobbies and try to fulfill them for your happiness it’s called self-love. In many relationships, we saw a person try to care for his/her partner, fulfill partner’s needs, think about his/her partner like – dislikes, whole day busy fulfilling his/her partner’s life. Never thought about personal life, personal needs, personal passion or hobbies, like or dislike, etc. But for a happy and healthy relationship required you are happy first, because you are fill fresh and happy then you give happiness to others.
Self-love means not justifying your bad habits for your happiness it’s not good for your health and your relationship. For example, you come back home from work with stress and drink one or two and feel relaxed, but this is not self-love, you think I love myself, but you can not love yourself and your partner.
You are not being selfish, you think about yourself as well as your partner, it’s not only about you it is about your relationship. follow your hobby, dreams, and passion parallelly with your partner’s need.
2. Meet Your Partner daily
you think I meet my partner daily at home in morning or evening, yes I know that but my mean of that is not only meet but in the sense of spend some time every day together, not count your romance or sex in this.
Every day you come back home with stress and its routine life because work is also important. but doing work daily without fail, the same thing applies in a relationship give some time not more but at least 15 to 20 minutes. At this time what you are doing? Talk with your partner in a fresh mood, ask about his/her day, what they are doing, share some special moment or some extraordinary thing that happened in a day.
talking is the way to express your feelings and emotions, but it’s not possible in a day it takes some time but you have tried to do it daily. many things can do in this meet, like playing a question game, healthy debate, talking about your past story, making a plan for the future, etc.
one more thing in the relationship is daily one time eat to gather. in our Gujarati one proverb is ” Whose food is gathered, their mind is gathered”
3. Appreciate Each Other
Appreciate your partner for the small-small thing it makes you both very happy, and your partner feels something special or feels valued his/her self. I know it’s very difficult for a lot of us but not impossible.
Always appreciate your partner’s love for you, your partner’s emotions, your partner’s care for you, Your partner’s likes or dislikes, your partner’s good habits, your partner’s nature, your partner’s knowledge, etc. because your small appreciation is very big for your partner’s and its very matter when your partners appreciate than others.
In a relationship, every person has value, and appreciation is giving your partner proper value. Value in a relationship is very important because your partners know where they stand and how they mean to you. When you appreciate his/her for what they do for you it’s motivated them keep to doing it.
Your appreciation makes them feel special. you are more grateful for what that person contributes to your life and your relationship. Make always appreciating your partner a priority.
4. Never Angry
Anger is destroy everything because can not control ourselves at this stage. Anger is normal and even emotions but it is very important to deal with it positively, otherwise, the Worst results from what you cant expect.
Always think before you speak, think what is the reaction of this particular action. Some of the best tactics for your anger, When you are angry take a pose or left from there for while, or take a breath and count 10.
After this situation, once you calm down or relax, go to your partner and state what upset you. if you don’t like your husband put his wet towel on the bed or your wife doesn’t like your relatives coming to your home. and you feel angry first calm down and talked with your partner. For Example, Say “I’m upset you put your wet towel on the bed, or I’m upset you don’t like my relatives coming to home”
Try to reduce your anger get some exercise. do some enjoyable activities you like, doing some physical exercise. and control your anger for your happy and healthy relationship.
5. Never Compare to Anyone
Comparision is not a good thing in a relationship, because every person is different. We compare our partners for a small thing with our friends or family members and create big issues in a relationship.
For example, you are not giving me a surprise or gift like my friend’s husband. all person’s way to express their love is different, so never compare to anyone.
” Comparison finished your happiness ” when you start comparing your partner to another relationship is the moment you choose unhappiness in the relationship. your spouse is not your ex or not your friend’s husband or wife, he or she is unique in his/her beliefs and thoughts. Always loving your spouse with his/her quality, Who they are.
Every time you compare your partner to another one it’s very toxic for your partner, and his/her is also unhappy with you and try to get out of the relationship.
This all habit can change your relationship, you feel happy in your relationship, and both are loving to each other very much.
5 Habits of a Happy & Successful Relationship